Partner Assault Response Program

Welcome to the Partner Assault Response (PAR) Program.

The PAR program is a specialized education/counselling program for individuals who have been charged with a domestic violence offence and mandated to attend through the Crown Attorney’s Office or Probation & Parole.

In Ontario, PAR programs are often part of the Domestic Violence Court Program. This initiative provides coordinated criminal justice system response to domestic violence.

Facts about PAR

  • The PAR program is offered to all genders who have been mandated to attend the program,

  • The program is offered on an individual or group session,

  • This is a minimum 10 week program,

  • Assessments are sent to the Crown Attorney’s Office and/or Probation & Parole upon completion,

  • There may be a fee for participating - which will be discussed during your intake/assessment

What you will learn in PAR

  • Introduction to Partner Abuse,

  • Impact of Abusive Behaviour on Partner & Children,

  • Accountability & Responsibility,

  • The Man Box,

  • Emotions,

  • Healthy vs. Unhealthy Emotions,

  • Developing Healthy Relationships,

  • Respectful Communication,

  • Conflict Resolution,

  • Self-Care & Self-Esteem

  • The Impacts of Substance Abuse

  • Understanding & Dealing with Triggers

“With no bias, this course is great for all aspects of relationships.”
— PAR client
“I understand the problems with my relationships and hopefully to make it better.”
— PAR Client
“This information should be taught in schools.”
— PAR Client
“I understand more and understand why and how and what to do to react to situations in a healthy manner.”
— PAR Client

For those who have abused

We believe that most PAR clients would like to be healthy, respectful and caring partners. However, we realize that sometimes you don’t act that way.

The PAR program staff are professionals who will treat you with respect. At the same time, we will challenge you to take accountability and responsibilities for your actions.

For those who have been abused

For victims of abuse, we offer PARTNER CONTACT services. If your current or former partner is attending the program you will get:

  • A minimum four contacts with a PAR staff during the program, if you wish,

  • Help with safety planning

  • Information on how the PAR program works

  • A phone call if program staff ever have any concerns about your safety